Maybe you`re exaggerating, but everything feels as if it hinges on what you do next. A personal or professional relationship is in flux, and you`re the one who could set it in stone. You might end up acting involuntarily as the suspense reaches critical mass. It would help if you knew your own mind, especially if a partner or coworker is trying to make sense of your reaction. No, this isn`t a normal situation for anyone. Find what feels most comfortable for you and work with that.