Nobody feels like playing by the rules. Even if this is your house, they`re not interested in listening to you. Now you can see how polite society might devolve into martial law, and you don`t like it. This isn`t to suggest that you have any control over the system. Instead, you`re probably at its mercy. People who aren`t actively being mean to you don`t seem to care about your feelings one way or another. But there`s a ray of hope piercing this dark forecast: Your personal resources are clearly defined, and it`s up to you to be good to yourself.